Why I picked it up: Yes, I'm a new mom and a book lover, so I've discovered the Parenting section in my library.
Why I finished it:
The book "It's a Mom!" dwelt on the sometimes conflicting emotions a new parent has - you have this awesomely cuddly bundle of joy, but you also need a break from being with a baby 24x7. Most of the advice is for a new or expecting parent, right up to the toddler age-group.
Plus: I related with the thought that you completely lose your "self" identity when you become a parent. I also laughed out loud when browsing through it in the library - because the examples/stories are so true! People DO give you unwanted advice, everyone guilt-trips you if try new parenting ideologies, and you will guilt-trip yourself.
I've tried to unsuccessfully discuss babies learning independence, not wanting to feed my baby Cerelac (or store-bought baby food) (this one I won), and more.
Minus: The author doesn't quote from any studies of parenting methodologies, or scientific research, all the "How To" advice is solely from her experience. I wished there had been more substantial citing.
I'd Recommend this to: New Moms and Dads only - not expecting parents.
Goodreads: http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2352113.It_s_a_Mom_
I'll be sure to mention this to friends who have just become first time parents, thanks for recommending it.
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